thank you yet again.

So i had a new problem with a widget (which has been alluded to in another thread).
apparently when you try to embed an ajax type of widget, and of course break the cross domain issues with XRPC, then you can do all kinds of wonderous things. unless of course you put it onto a .NET page... LOL
turns out, that .NET wraps the whole page in a form, which I knew but didnt realize the importance of it until speaking with perk. So... When you embed a widget, that is for argument sake a little contact form, using
<Script src="someremotesitecode"></script> you run into a problem. You end up with a Form inside a form... Since the whole .NET page is wrapped in a form, your form because invalid. The submit button then automatically bubbles up to the outermost form, which refreshes the page, and of course skips your actual form that you created. duh....
well the solution is a big giant freaking

remove your form from the widget.
don't use a Submit button.
instead use an onclick event to call a function that reads the input elements via document.getElementById('youridname').value
can i get a giant group Doi!
it may not have been rocket science, but it still was a genius suggestion because I wasn't seeing that solution.
thanks perk.