ok, this shifts me to another question about security of directories.
I have a single directory under my root directory, which is where I am dropping a large amount of files generated by the main.php webpage that gets run. Basically, think a Search Engine Spam site, that is caching all the pages.
I cant drop them into root, because the root wont allow me to ( and thats just a bad idea anyway).
So I make a subfolder, lets call it CACHE.
It seems the only thing I can do to the subfolder to allow my webpage to write to it, is set that CACHE folder to 777. Which i know is bad, but it seems I have no other alternative? only access is via FTP and webpages.
i guess I could chown possibly? but I would need to know the apache name, which might be different on every host...
i am 99% certain that I just being a complete retard here. So enlighten me

and it might help answer my htaccess questions as well.