You are 100% correct that this post does not directly concern apple, it concerns marketing.
In a nutshell, perception is reality. You do not have to create the best product, people just have to think it is the best product

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This has been demonstrated time and time again.
The past is littered with tons of better products that died out due to poor marketing. studebaker,oswarp etc.
Problem is that apple is not "winning" everywhere. In fact in some places apple is actually losing if not dead last.
Apple is playing damage control, but you can see things like philippines iphone/ipad sales below forecast,japan,korea,china,malaysia,india same story.
Typical american arrogance is to poo poo that, think that the world is 1980 and USA is still king, these countries are of no importance etc.
A good book to read is
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Post-American_WorldUnlike other books which are either "pro american" or "anti american" this book attempts to take the middle road.
The best statement he makes is that USA is not going down, but the rest of the world is rising up.
What are the implications of this. Already Asia,India (is india part of asia), and south america have more middle class people (in real earnings) then USA and Europe combined. What took britain 300 years to do, USA 150 years, Japan 50 years, China has done in 20.
In 10 years the middle class of asia will be 2x the size of the west. This is the market apple is losing.
Another big thing is culture. I have talked about this before, but Mr Zakaria in his book describes it far better then me.
Myth/Religion affects how cultures see things. Compare Christianity/Islam/Judism vs Hinduism/Buddism.
Judism which is the basis of all western religion. One "God" who is omni-potent and if you do not do what he saids, you go to hell.
Compare this to Hinduism. An infinite number of gods. Each "god" has its own way "beliefs". Best one I ever saw was a hindu who followed jesus. How you get to the better life there is a zillion paths.
When you see the "cultural" thing. You can see why USA has failed miserably in Asia.
Apple is using "western/american" marketing techniques that fail in Asia.
What is good advertising in USA, is shitty advertising in asia and will actually cost you sales.
I posted that Coca Cola propaganda film for philippines (1950 era) here a while back.
Examine it, how does it differ from Coke ads in USA from the same period.
"Cults" exist is asia, but no one really takes them serious including the members

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People here change their religion in the same way they change their clothes.
So this is why the "apple cult" fails in asia.
Food is the best example. Constantly they want to eat different things, try new things etc.
A casual meal has 3-4 dishes.
So Apple is "winning" in "America", but what is causing them to "win" in "America" will cause them to lose in "Asia".
Unless Apple changes its tactics they will become part of a pool that is relatively speaking getting smaller and smaller.
Anyway Perks good post. Valid points for the "american" market.
Not to say most asian's care about USB ports any more then american's do.